Happy Mother's Day
For
me Mother's Day is special, not only because my family blesses me with
their thoughtfulness, but because remembering my mother is a gift that I can reopen
each year. A treasured gift that lives in the depths of my heart.
This
story begins on a gorgeous Mother's Day in the year 2000. The day was warm and
sunny accompanied by plans for a special dinner for my mother in our home.
You
see, after my father passed away in 1998, I brought my mother from Michigan to live
with me in my home in Texas. God brought my family 2 years earlier to this very home that
would have a room just for my mom. A home where just outside our subdivision and
across the road, was a care facility. Little did we know at the time, there
would be a need for that care. But God knew and was preparing us for what lay
ahead.
At
that point, mother settled in with me and my family and life continued by the
grace of God. However, little by little my mother's health was failing. She had
medical issues and needs that I could no longer meet. I tried, I really tried.
I cried and really cried for the strength and courage to continue, but that was not
going to be the plan. Now the help of the care facility was needed. So close by
and so easy to visit every day. What a blessing it was.
Mom
once again settled into her new home. I decorated her pretty space, with all
her treasures to give her comfort and feel like home. Not a word of complaint
was ever spoken from her lips, not a discouraged attitude was ever reflected in
her pretty face. She was showing us the grace and dignity of a life in its
final days. It had to be difficult for her making this huge change. The grand
lady who worked and retired from the Veteran’s Administration Hospital, was also a homemaker, gardener, decorator, crafter, cook, wife, mother, church faithful and friend to all.
As
time went by, my family and I spent every day visiting my mother. Mornings,
afternoons and evenings we all stopped in to spend time with mom. I planned
special events, picnics outside mom's room, sing a long times, birthday parties
and so forth. It was a time to soak up so much to learn about life and
the fragility of our days on earth. Mom still had so much to tell me and show
me. She was an angel on earth and her work here not yet complete.
By
now the first Mother’s Day after mom’s move was approaching. Mom was doing well
enough to come home for the day to enjoy dinner and spend time with the family.
We all were looking forward to the outing mom would take to be with us. I
cooked and cleaned to make everything just right. I prayed for our day to be as
special as could be, and it was.
I
can still see mom as my husband brought her home for the day visit. He wheeled her
up the walkway in her wheelchair and my heart beat quicker with the excitement to
entertain my mother. She was dressed in a pretty lavender suit. The color was gorgeous
against her pretty silver hair. A little blush on her cheeks brought out those
gorgeous brown eyes that danced and glistened like the pearls around her neck.
It was easy to see how happy she was to be in our home for Mother’s Day.
Dinner
was wonderful as we all talked and laughed sharing family memories. I played
the piano for mom and we sang her favorite hymns. We went outside on the patio to enjoy
the sunshine of this perfect day continuing the laughter and family stories.
As
the day came to an end, I cleared the dining room table and cleaned the kitchen as mom sat by talking and
laughing just like many times before. What a gift when I look back. How fast
time marches on as life moves us forward.
When
it was time to take mom back, we all rode along to settle her in her
pretty room for the night. We gathered to say a prayer as we always did in parting,
knowing we had been blessed once again with a memory that would last us
forever. Mom
passed away just 3 and half months later. Just 14 weeks from that special
Mother’s Day and last dinner. The last time she would ever be in my home. The last time I would
see her in that gorgeous lavender suit, hear her voice at the dinner table and see her generous
smile. With fragile hands, mom stroked
my hair as we said goodbye. Thanked me for a lovely dinner and special day. I
can still see her hand wave as we walked out of her pretty room. “See you
tomorrow, we all said.” Tomorrows did
come and go in those weeks before mom took her final move to heaven. Looking back on those days were the
best of my life. Times in which I
learned so much from my mother. The one
who always had a smile on her face and kind word for all. Generous to a fault and a giver of time. Encourager and cheerleader to everyone.
Learning's that will never have a last time!
Learning's that will never have a last time!
This
Mother’s Day will once again give me the moments to look into my heart and reopen
that gift from the past. It will be a
time to be thankful for the dear mother I was blessed with and the mom I hope
and pray I can be, set by her example.
Mom
used to say to cherish the moments, take time to be kind and in all ways ask
God to direct our path. Insightful words from a wise lady. I hope your days are special and blessed by
gifted moments shared with family, friends and Mothers. (c)Celestina Marie
Many
Blessings Always.
Your
Friend,
Celestina
Marie
